Each year we set aside a month of gratitude centered around the American Holiday of Thanksgiving. One month seems to be the trend of being thankful. So, what happens before and after that designated month?
If I were an alien watching how humans operate I would find this practice absurd. Humans go about their daily living by getting on the hamster wheel of life. They wake up each morning, some exercise, eat breakfast and go to work. Some come home from work, eat dinner, sit down and watch television until it’s time for bed and they get up the next day and do it again. All the while, complaining about traffic, insufficient funds and stupid people at the mall.
I, the alien, would be so confused as I observed the constant murmerings of these humans. Imagine for a moment what it would look like if all of our words were spewing outward into space at a constant hectic pace just flying into the alien brain, hitting it like a forceful ball of fire. With the constant onslaught of contrasting words the befuddlement would make my head bounce back and forth like a rubber ball. The general feeling would be described as pure bleakness.
For eleven months out of the year the words flying out would look something like this;
- too hot
- too cold
- rainy, yuck
- traffic sucks
- people are mean
- politicians are all corrupt
- my mother hates me
- my house is too small
- I don’t like pizza
- my legs hurt
- I’m fat
- I’m ugly
- I’m not good enough
The list just goes on and on for every single subject one could imagine.
All of a sudden there is a 30 day period where different kinds of words and thoughts enter the alien brain from the stream of incessant blabbering of the humans. These words seem softer, kinder and the subject matter is mostly about a new word; Gratitude. There is a very different feeling from the bleakness brought on by all the other words. The feeling washing over is more peace-loving and tranquil. The alien wonders why the change and what is this gratitude business about.
Gratitude is a state of Mind. It is the feeling of thankfulness for all of the blessings in one’s life. Why is it only dominantly felt for one month out of the year?
As my journey of life moves along, as a human of course, I realize that more and more people are able to feel gratitude on a daily basis. The world is changing and despite what you hear in the news, and all of the complaining going on out there, more and more people are grateful for all the little treasures in their lives.
The truth is, it is not all that bleak in our world. There is so much love and gratitude moving around. Sometimes we get overwhelmed and feel that all of humanity is lost. But rest assured it is not. I have seen natural disasters decimate towns and cities and before you know it, people from everywhere travel to help everyone in need. When someone passes away, the community gathers together and visit the grieving family while bearing gifts of food and comfort. When a car accident happens there are always good samaritans that stop to help complete strangers. It happens over and over again. People are good and they want to help each other. There is much gratitude and love to be spread around.
I feel that it is safe to say that the words spewing out into space are not overwhelmingly negative and the positive words are flowing outward throughout the entire year. There are times that we as humans can get caught up in the whirlwind of negativity and feel that nothing is ever good enough. But love is at the core of our being and it does prevail.
Even though we set aside a month to focus on gratitude, there is gratitude in the air every single day of the year and most humans have the capacity to feel it. Sometimes layers have to be peeled back to get to the core of a hurt human but there in the center is where the source of God lies and that source is pure love.
Meanwhile, as we enter the season of gratitude let’s try to remember to do our gratitudes each and every day of the year. There is so much wonder, love and excitement to share with each other. Gratitude is alive and well.